I deleted the post I made last night, it sounded too angry. I decided that it really did not belong here, so it's gone.....I feel better about it...I guess I was just venting and needed to get it "out"...soooo, the poison is out, time to let the good feelings back in!!
Well, I read it before it got the boot and I was planning to respond after I thought about it for a while. I'll just say that I did get what you were saying and that I empathize with you. Your little daughter is going to come home to a wonderful mom who is already trying to make her world a better place.
Jenny, I saw it too. I understand completely the sentiment you wrote about. I too have modified my circle of family who I choose to visit. The others I keep contact with but that's about it. FWIW, I agree with your decision. Not like that means anything but just thought I'd put that out there...... Leigh
thanks you guys...it's just so hard...my sister MJ who is mentally challenged, lives with my dad. My dad is not her biological father, but he takes care of her and she wants to live him and my sister L, well because that's her home and my sister D bosses her and bullies her (D is her full siser) Well, in order to protect MJ, my dad got power of attorney over her, (MJ chose him to be) and that just sticks in D's craw. What happened last week, is that D was accusing my father of stealing off of MJ, who gets SSI. Well she didn't do it personally, she had my brother come up an do her dirty work....It just disgusts me, my dad has been thru so much and D just keeps heaping the misery on. She had no grounds for this, it's just that she wants control over MJ, so what better way to try and do that, than make these kind of accusations. Thank God I was there at my dad's that night, I am just disgusted with my brother and D...
Chrisser, thank you so much for saying that, I am so conflicted because, I believe inforgivness, but I just can't this time and it makes me feel like a bad person..
Leigh, Thank you for reinforcing my feelings that I am doing the right thing. Life is just to short to be around people like my sister and I never want my daughter to subjected to this ugliness going on...
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Well, I read it before it got the boot and I was planning to respond after I thought about it for a while. I'll just say that I did get what you were saying and that I empathize with you. Your little daughter is going to come home to a wonderful mom who is already trying to make her world a better place.
Christine
Jenny, I saw it too. I understand completely the sentiment you wrote about. I too have modified my circle of family who I choose to visit. The others I keep contact with but that's about it. FWIW, I agree with your decision. Not like that means anything but just thought I'd put that out there......
Leigh
thanks you guys...it's just so hard...my sister MJ who is mentally challenged, lives with my dad. My dad is not her biological father, but he takes care of her and she wants to live him and my sister L, well because that's her home and my sister D bosses her and bullies her (D is her full siser) Well, in order to protect MJ, my dad got power of attorney over her, (MJ chose him to be) and that just sticks in D's craw. What happened last week, is that D was accusing my father of stealing off of MJ, who gets SSI. Well she didn't do it personally, she had my brother come up an do her dirty work....It just disgusts me, my dad has been thru so much and D just keeps heaping the misery on. She had no grounds for this, it's just that she wants control over MJ, so what better way to try and do that, than make these kind of accusations. Thank God I was there at my dad's that night, I am just disgusted with my brother and D...
Chrisser, thank you so much for saying that, I am so conflicted because, I believe inforgivness, but I just can't this time and it makes me feel like a bad person..
Leigh,
Thank you for reinforcing my feelings that I am doing the right thing. Life is just to short to be around people like my sister and I never want my daughter to subjected to this ugliness going on...
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